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The main reasons I wanted to go and
study in America were:-
1)
I wanted to improve my English skills.
2)
I wanted to have foreign friends
3)
I wanted to travel.
There were three of us traveling
together. We all met up at Bangkok airport where we finished off all
our paperwork. Once we’d checked in and were soon waiting to board
our flight. We boarded the plane and soon my friends and I were
crying on the airplane. We were sad because we had just left our
families, our friends and all the people I never wanted to leave for
a whole year. The plane took off from Bangkok and after a few hours
flying we landed in Japan. We had a stopover of about an hour there
and then it was a long tiring 16-hour flight to Los Angeles in the
USA. My friends and I were both excited and nervous about landing in
a new country.
How were we gonna get out of this
airport. It was huge. It was lucky for us that there was a group of
Thai people that gave us some advice how to get to the right gate so
that we could catch the correct flight to the State we were going
to. I felt so thank full of them because I know if I hadn’t spoken
to them, we would definitely have got lost.
I already knew that I would have three host families. My
first host family was living in a small town called Uniontown, in
Pennsylvania. The day I arrived at the airport I felt so excited at
meeting them. There, at the airport (which is in Pittsburgh city) to
meet me, were my host dad and 2 of my host brothers. We left the
airport and headed off to my new home … it was an interesting
journey talking to my ‘new’ family and seeing new sites. When we
arrived at my new home I went straight to sleep, as I was so tired
after such a long journey. After a good sleep I woke and could meet
my ‘family’ properly. My host brother, who was 14 years old was very
good at golf. We went to the golf course sometimes. I can’t play, I
mean I just can’t seem to hit the balls. One time my host brother
was in a golf tournament in West Virginia and I got a chance to go
with him and his parents. It was fun, but again golf is just not my
game. I think it is kind of boring to watch.
But I have to say he is a very good
golfer. I hope he will be a successful professional golfer in the
future. While staying with my first host family, I spent most of the
time just staying in the house. There were not a lot of options to
go anywhere unless you had your own car. The house was far from
downtown. While staying with this host family, I also studied at the
local high school. I was very nervous the first day and for the
first nine weeks as I did not think that my English was good enough
to understand what the teachers were saying to me and how to do all
the difficult assignments. The other subjects were also very
difficult. English was the hardest and I couldn’t do any assignment
myself!!! After every test I would feel really bad because most of
them I would get grade ‘F’. My teacher and I tried to fix the
problems but when it became time to study I knew I had to work
harder. I begin to know more and how it works but still felt that I
had completely lost of the system of studying English. Biology was
another subject that was hard for me to understand. My biology
teacher was very nice and kind. We would spend time and work out an
easier way of studying. He would read for me, explain more and
speaking slowly so that I could understand the unit in the study
book better. So my studying in biology got better. He was a very
helpful teacher. Biology class just doesn’t make me feel quite so
bad anymore and I started to enjoy it.
In this school (which was my first high school in
America) there were only about 500 students. Some of the students
there were very friendly and trying to be my friends and some of
them just being mean to me and the other exchange students in the
school. My school had about 8 exchange students. Most of them from
Europe (especially Germany) and a few from South America, but no one
from Asia except me. I used to hang out with those exchange students
a lot when I first arrived there, but then after a couple months, I
left from the group realizing that I came to America for another
reason. My first goal was to improve my English skills and I think
just hanging out with the other exchange student all the time at
school was not the best way to reach my goal. So I began to make
friends with some of the American students at school. It wasn’t easy
at first but finally I had some American friends and just had a good
time. My math class friends were the best and I also learnt how to
type without looking at the keyboard at this school too! (English).
I was proud of myself.
My second family lived in an apartment and I had to move
from Uniontown to the City of Pennsylvania. I also had to change to
a new school called theMcKinley and Freshmen Academy. This was my
second high school. It was much bigger than my first high school in
Pennsylvania. There were about 2000 students in McKinley. Studying
was easier than the school I went in Pennsylvania and I made a lot
of African American friends I think they were friendlier to me. I
think they are real. I mean they acted more natural than the white
students. Honestly. I’m not racist, and yes I know you can’t judge
people by their color but this is how it was for me! Who knows, if I
go to somewhere else I may have white friends more than black
friends. Right? I don’t care. Everybody can be friends. It depends
on who are they? What they think about me, and what I really feel
about them. But yeah I had good times and bad times with friends.
I soon had to change families again, and this time I
moved to Canton City. I was scared when I first stayed in the house.
I was afraid that I wouldn’t adjust myself to the new host family
but I felt a lot better after I had stayed for a while. Canton City
was a big city, what can I said it’s not as small as the first and
the second host family cities but it also not as big as New York or
the other huge cities. The house always has something going on. I
mean from the day I walked in to the day I left. There’s always
something funny, surprises, and a lot of fun. It was the best host
family for me, ever. The host family had the host parents, Tricia
and Jason. They were so young. I mean it was weird staying with a
host family that had host parents still only 20-25 years old. I
loved it! My host mom she was very kind, very funny and very
helpful. I very think she did a good job even though we didn’t have
a lot time to get to know each other better. My host mom used to
work on the second shift. I’m not quite sure about the times but I
think from 2-10 p.m. so the most of the time I saw her, was at night
after she got out from work. After about 3 weeks, she changed her
work-times. She worked from 10pm until 6am. I was very happy and
appreciated that she then had more time for me and the other
exchange students in the house.
Sometimes, the other
exchange students and I visited Tricia’s parents and they cooked
meals for us. It’s good to eat real food sometimes (just kidding.).
Sometimes Tricia and the others in the house took Felipe and me to
another state. One time we planned to go to Canada to see Niagara
Falls. but Felipe and me couldn’t get to the Canadian side for a
long time because we didn’t have a right type of visa. But I didn’t
care. I had fun traveling and seeing Niagara Falls with them. We got
to see the falls from the New York side. This was the most
impressing site me for in the whole of the U.S.A. We also went to
cedar point with the host family. It is up in Cleveland, Ohio. The
day we went there, it was crowded with people. I rode a lot of
roller coasters. My first rollercoaster was the tallest one in the
world and it is my first ride ever! . I loved it. I was screaming
and having great fun. There were a lot of people waiting on the line
for each rollercoaster. I think everybody had fun that day. I still
remember every ride I ride and how I felt at that time. I can
imagine in my mind and will never forget! It was one of the best
experiences in my life.
With my host family (the third host
family) I wasn’t expecting anything good to happen to me ‘cause I’d
been with two host families and I was upset and I felt a little
disappointed. I also felt that I didn’t care what the hell was going
to happen to me. But when I lived with my last host family, it was
just the best host family for me ever. It just felt good to live
with people who can get along with and you don’t have to try, or be
like someone you’re not or you don’t like to be. I liked living with
the third host family and I felt like they gave me a lot of free
speech. I mean if I don’t like something I will say it without
feeling bad. Some host families made me feel so uncomfortable. Ain’t
it funny, I mean if you’re doing something that you don’t want to
do, you will feel uncomfortable. But what I was doing with the third
host family made me feel comfortable with what I did. I loved
staying with them and I think they are naturals at looking after
foreign students. Sometimes, (most of the time) in the house we had
some little fights. It was funny for me more than dramatic. I knew
it was dramatic for them when they were fighting (sometimes) but it
wasn’t making me feel uncomfortable staying at all. I loved to hear
them yelling to each other for funny reasons. Sometimes I’d just
talk with them after they got in the fight. It was so funny. I never
knew how fun I could get from this host family. I’m so glad I stayed
with them. We just lived as if in a real relationship. I didn’t try
to impress them or anything but they impressed me a lot and I just
feel like our house relationship with each other was real. I mean
it’s what most people get through and is being friends. Living with
this host family, I don’t feel if I missed much out. I’m not sure if
people were just being nice with me because I was an exchange
student or not. Maybe because in our host family, we had 2 exchange
students so we got more understanding than the host families who had
just one student.
I think it’s harder to find a close
friend in American schools because in the Thai Schools there are set
subjects for students for each year. Everybody in each class with
study together all day long. I mean even we change the subjects, the
next period we will go to study together, so you have a lot of time
to get to know to each other. But in the High schools in Ohio and
Pennsylvania student can choose their own subjects to study. Some
classes they will mix-up like having freshmen, softmore, junior or
senior in the same class. And when you study in the next class, you
will meet different students. It’s hard to get to know other people.
But I think it’s easier for students because they can choose their
own subjects the ones that they want to study and they think they
will do good at. In Ohio, I was a freshman. In the mornings I would
study at McKinley but in the afternoons I would study at the
Freshman Academy. Everyday all freshmen would catch the bus at
McKinley school and go to Freshmen Academy. The bus I rode on was
very different to Thai busses. I liked it a lot. Students on the bus
were so loud, crazy, funny and there was always something funny on
the bus. Most of the students on my bus were black. I loved it. The
school buses in Pennsylvania I rode on were quiet and the students
didn’t do a lot of talking. Sometimes on the way to Freshmen
Academy, there would be a fight. It was just so funny to me. It’s
just what I never expected to see in the USA before I came here and
it just made me feel glad to be a part of it.
At all the schools I went to, the
teachers tried to help me. They knew that I had a big major problem
and that was the English language. So I am kind of thankful to them,
appreciate what they did for me and I know they tried to help me as
much as possible. When they did (help) me, it can’t compare to any
prize or anything, so I say a very big thank you (from the bottom of
my heart).
Every Wednesday and Thursday, and after school finished
for the day, I’d study with my tutor. She helped me a lot with my
schoolwork and always had great advice on how to adjust myself in
America. She was a very nice and helpful person. Some weekends I
went to church with her and her family. She is a most special person
who helped me so much with my English. It was to meet a person like
her, that was one of the reasons why I went to America (to improve
my English).
Soon it was almost time to say goodbye to everybody. For
saying good-bye to everybody at school it was hard and kind of sad
that we wont see each other again, (may be). I feel bad that I will
leave my host family soon. But I also feel happy that I will be
going back to my home country and meeting my friends again. When it
was time to say goodbye to everybody at the airport it was hard. “
This is it” and then I just couldn’t believe I was going back to
Thailand.
My flight was from Ohio to Los Angeles. I had to transit at Los
Angeles and got lost in the airport. It was nighttime and I caught
the wrong bus! I asked the bus driver how to get to International
terminal. Luckily, I met with 3 of my friends at the International
terminal and we flew back to Thailand together. On the airplane
there were some monks. And one of my friends (a girl) got a ticket
sitting right next to the monks. So we switched the tickets and I
sat with the monks. It was so wierd because I’d not seen a monk for
like 10 months and now two of them are sat right next to me on the
airplane. In that time I just hope they wouldn’t talk to me. It just
was a crazy trip back home. When we arrived at Bangkok airport, it
was exciting to see my mom and everybody who I had missed while I
had been away in America. I was so happy when I met them and we just
took some pictures. I then flew again back to my home city of
Nakhonsithammarat.
Everybody who met me said I’m was a lot thinner. I’m now back in
Thailand and eating lots of Thai food and really enjoying it too. I
love how retarded we were are and how much fun we had together!!!
This experience will always in my mind and my host family/ies will
be missed a lot. In fact I miss everybody and thank them all for
giving me the chance to have such a wonderful experience. Thank you. |